Scattering Ashes in America’s National Parks It’s easy to see why many Americans would want their ashes scattered in one of the National Parks.The scale is breathtaking. The landscapes feel limitless. There’s a sense of space, wilderness and permanence that’s hard to match anywhere else. Standing in a place like Yosemite National Park, Bryce Canyon […]
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With a sprinkling of a fairy dust: Scattering ashes in Disneyland
Scattering Ashes at Disney: When Magical Thinking Meets Park Rules People often choose places associated with joy, happiness, and shared memories when deciding where to scatter ashes — and for some families, Disney is the obvious choice. Unfortunately, the scattering of ashes has become something of a problem for Disney parks. Not just because it […]
Continue readingMoneySuperMarket, Martin Lewis and the Question of Where Brits Want Their Ashes Scattered
MoneySuperMarket, Martin Lewis and the Question of Where Brits Want Their Ashes Scattered Confession first. I do like Martin Lewis. Or rather, what Martin Lewis represents. MoneySuperMarket, at its best, feels as though it’s on the side of the average person in the street. Yes, it exists to sell financial products — insurance very much […]
Continue readingCalifornia scattering ashes at sea – law
Change in the Law for Burial at Sea in California On 10 July 2012, a change in California State law quietly resolved a growing practical problem around the scattering of ashes at sea. Backed by the California Funeral Directors Association, new legislation introduced a clear protocol for how cremated remains should be handled when scattered […]
Continue readingScattering Ashes in Hawaii – Waikiki
Scattering Ashes in Hawaii – A Water Ceremony in Paradise When it comes to saying farewell to a loved one, location matters. And for many families, the idea of scattering ashes somewhere meaningful, beautiful, and timeless is part of creating a truly personal goodbye. So how about this for a setting: warm turquoise waters, the […]
Continue readingScattering Ashes: A Question of Consideration
I’m not entirely sure what I think about opinion pieces in newspapers. If they align with my own views, I’ll probably nod along in considered agreement. If they don’t, I’ll shake my head and think, what a foolish person. So, my interest was piqued when an opinion piece from The Washington Post popped up on […]
Continue readingScattering Ashes Abroad – The Perils of the choosing a foreign holiday destination.
Scattering Ashes Abroad – The Perils of the choosing a foreign holiday destination. A group of British tourists in Marmaris, Turkey, caused a health alert when they scattered a deceased relative’s ashes in the Mediterranean sea. Approximately 40 individuals, staying at three nearby hotels, gathered on Uzunyali beach to fulfil the wish of a loved […]
Continue readingCremation Ashes as a Marketing Ploy
Nothing new in the world they say. Well perhaps, but this is certainly different. There is a famous restaurant in the Las Vegas called the Heart Attack Grill. Its whole method of promotion is entirely paradoxical. It is famous for telling you that their food is very very bad for you. They are in the […]
Continue readingEmbassies in the UK – Contacts for Travelling with Ashes
Embassies in the UK – Contacts for travelling with ashes Embassies & High Commissions in the UK Introduction When you plan to travel overseas with a loved one’s ashes — whether to scatter them in a special place or return them home — it’s essential to check the legal and practical requirements first. Every country […]
Continue readingHow much for losing ashes?! Court decision on the value of ashes
Costs, liability and compensation when cremated remains go missing We often ponder the value of ashes: to some they are worthless to others the most precious item on the planet, in previous posts we have considered their worth in monetary terms. Well in a recent case in the town of Mobile – a port city […]
Continue readingThat takes the Biscuit! Grandma’s ashes in a cookie!
Grandma’s ashes in a cookie I can just imagine it – ‘Would you like one of my Nan’s cookies they are delicious?’, ‘Ummm yes please’ …. ‘Did I say they were my Gran’s cookies? I got my grammar wrong they are cookies of my gran!’ This is a story that has had huge press, two […]
Continue readingInstagram, Tina Turner and Scattering her Sons Ashes
The musical icon Tina Turner has recently (28 July 2018) scattered the ashes her son at sea off the coast of California (USA). Very sad, her son apparently took his own life earlier in the month. How did she let people know? Instagram, (see picture below) adding the following comment: “My saddest moment as a […]
Continue readingIllinois has started allowing scattering of ashes in its State Parks
What the New Illinois State Park Ashes Scattering Rules Mean for Families Illinois the 21st state of America is (as of the start of 2018) now permitting the stating of ashes in its State Parks. Good news. Illinois according to American commentators is a cross section of the states on a small scale It is […]
Continue readingA Heart-warming story about a family being reunited (with ashes)
The story starts off rather tragically, it concerns a lady who is murdered. An English lady Lena Booth White Hat born in 1940 went off to the US to live here life and fell in love and married a native American Indian, the couple settled in Denver Colorado. The marriage sounds like it didn’t […]
Continue readingHow to honour a friend: flush him down the loo
Okay, so that might not be the first thing you think when considering the options for the ashes of a lifelong friend. However, that is what Thomas McDonald decided to do to honour his friend. Any old toilets, you might be thinking? No, specifically those of baseball grounds in the US. Why? Well, firstly Mr […]
Continue readingOn my way to the Blue Ridge Mountains
The crematorium run by Cremation Services Inc. of Winston-Salem has had its license suspended by North Carolina Board of Funeral Services. Why? Well one of its employees had 93 unclaimed sets of ashes stored in his home in North Carolina. A neighbour noticed bone fragment and ashes near to the man’s dustbin and reported it […]
Continue readingThe perils of not using the right urn: Galveston, Texas
All too often I see in the reports of people trying to return urns to families. People will commit the ashes of a loved one to the deep without the full grasp of science – wood, air weight densities and the like. In fact, the situation got so bad in California they even have a […]
Continue readingCarrie Fisher’s Ashes Placed in Giant Prozac Pill Urn
Family Chose Unique Urn Reflecting Her Humor and Mental Health Advocacy Carrie Fisher immortalised in film as Princess Leia in the original Star Wars films passed away in December. She was laid to rest alongside her mother: Debbie Reynolds – also a movie star who tragically died a day after her daughter. Carrie Fisher had […]
Continue readingLost and found – ashes locket -warming story for Christmas
We all hate losing stuff, but just imagine losing a locket with a loved one’s ashes inside – how distressing would that be. However, on this occasion there was a happy ending. Last month Bud Crevasse, an octogenarian from Signal Mountain Tennessee, spotted a shiny pendant on the floor of a local car park, he […]
Continue readingScattering Ashes Locations That Create an Environment of Memory
How Ashes Scattering Places Help Families Feel Connected There is often a pull between scattering ashes at a cemetery or a specific ‘other’ location – a hillside, a beach, a view. I came across this article My Father Has No Grave — So I Visit Him Where He Lived by Jesse Sposato which is excellent […]
Continue readingWashington DC Residents Want a Scatter Garden
Cremation is rising in popularity in the United States, now, just under half the population opt for cremation when the time comes, but the trend towards this has been quite steep and as such has created many varying dilemmas and opinions. One outcome is a group in Washington that are pushing the council for a […]
Continue readingEmergency triggered due to Ash scattering at the New York Opera House.
A Dallas man caused a fright at the New York Metropolitan Opera House when he scattered the ashes of his friend in the orchestra pit during the intermission. The ashes were mistaken for a dangerous substance and the performance had to be abandoned during the second intermission at the matinée performance of “Guillaume Tell’’, people […]
Continue readingAshes are Priceless. Well Truman Capotes aren’t !
The Curious Case of Truman Capote’s Ashes: Morality, Legality and the Market for Celebrity Remains The world of ashes always throws curve balls. People often say that the cremated remains of a person are priceless — and in a sense they’re right. Ashes can’t be replaced; they can be the most sentimental item in the […]
Continue readingThe Facebook generation has no problem with the ashes of a former spouse
Survey Shows Most People Don’t Mind Cremation Keepsakes from a Previous Partner You may think that the urn or cremation jewellery of a former spouse may freak-out prospective new partners, and they would want the widow or widower to removal all traces of a former partner. Not so. Respondents on Facebook survey conducted by OneWorld […]
Continue readingSports fan deifies ban to scatter on third base
Sports fans can have an extremely strong bond with their club and judging by the amount of requests and queries we get, they can often wish to have their ashes scattered at the hallow turf. This story from the US is interesting as not only does it concern someone breaking the rules, but their keenness […]
Continue readingMetal fan has his ashes scattered in the Mosh Pit
You’re not allowed to call it heavy metal any more so I am told, just metal. But still to my mind it is pretty much the same. Loud in volume, lots of drums and thrash guitar, not so many ballads and plenty of counter culture paraphernalia. Metal bands seem to specifically go out of their […]
Continue readingPrince’s Ashes – A Private Farewell for a Global Icon
When the world learned of Prince’s death in April 2016, shock was quickly followed by disbelief. The musical genius behind Purple Rain and When Doves Cry was found collapsed in a lift at his Paisley Park home in Minnesota. Authorities confirmed there was no suggestion of suicide — the cause was an accidental overdose of […]
Continue readingCarrying ashes on a Delta Air Lines flight
Carrying ashes on a Delta Air Lines flight. Travelling with ashes can be tricky, it is best to get thing right from the start, so that your journey is as stress free as possible. So if you intending to take cremation ashes on a Delta Air Lines flight, this is what they say: Cremated remains can be accepted […]
Continue readingDo they burn the coffin when you get cremated
Do They Burn the Coffin When You Get Cremated? A common question that often arises when discussing cremation is, “Do they burn the coffin with the body?” To those in the funeral industry, the answer might seem obvious, yet it’s a query that comes up frequently. The simple answer is: yes, the coffin is cremated […]
Continue readingAdvice on travelling with cremated remains – from the LA Times
Practical tips and rules for flying or driving with ashes The question of how to travel with cremated remains was posed to the LA Times travel correspondent. She was asked: Recently, a long-time travel friend died. She had travelled with us several times on African safaris and was in love with Africa, the animals and […]
Continue readingOne Virginians preference for cremation
A personal reason for choosing cremation and scattering over burial In the early days of the blog I did quite a few ‘personal perspectives’ and I am not sure why I haven’t posted any for a while. This lady’s ponderings interested me, not only is it thoughtful, but it has a clear insight into the […]
Continue readingBe minded of Aladdin’s Cave
When cremated remains turn up in unexpected places You would be surprised how many stories there are about cremated remains ending up in charity shops, the normal circumstances are that a house clearance is organised by someone living away and no one checking or realising that a loved one’s ashes were in the wardrobe, these issues […]
Continue readingChoose to inter ashes at a family grave – but whose family?
Conflicts and questions over burial plots and family heritage Cremation is the common choice in the UK and becoming so in Canada and the US, therefore you can fit more ash caskets onto a family plot. But whose family? I came across an interesting think piece by Ken Gallinger in the Toronto Star about where […]
Continue readingThe changing trends towards cremation in the USA
How Americans’ attitudes and practices around cremation are evolving Here is an interesting article from USA Today which has looked at changing trends in death rituals in the US and greater adoption of cremation. The article points to six noticeable changes in culture: More people are personalising cremation The articles points to the fact that […]
Continue readingForensic science and the case of the dubious ashes
When cremated remains become evidence — scientific testing and legal questions I think most of may raise questions if we received a love remains back and we got a solid grey lump back like the one in the picture. This is what happened to family of a man in the US, what is more it […]
Continue readingIconic Buddhist monk’s cremation relics go on display
The Rosemead Buddhist temple in Los Angles is opening its door to the public, displaying a huge collection of relics. This year the collection has even more artefacts, perhaps the most notable of its new relics from the Venerable Thich Quang Duc. The Buddhist monk who in 1963 in south Vietnam set fire to himself […]
Continue readingMore columbarium controversy
Columbarium Controversy: Legal Debate about a Mausoleum in Wisconsin State What started as a spat between a church and local businesses on the construction of a columbarium has gone wider and now the State of Wisconsin have issued an opinion that concurred with the attorney general in Cedarburg – columbaria are the same as mausoleum. […]
Continue readingUS Agony Aunt’s readers give reasons for choosing cremation
A personal letter on why cremation was the preferred choice In the US cremation is on the rise, so a popular US agony aunt asked why. Whilst cost is often sighted and one case there was not enough space for a burial in the cemetery of choice. There was two other reasons which I was not […]
Continue readingOne in five households hold cremated remains
Statistics and insights into how many families keep ashes at home Well that is what a survey of residents of California and Washington State revealed. I came across this delightful infographic the other day and thought it was worth sharing. A number of funeral homes got together and commissioned a small survey on people attitudes […]
Continue readingShould idigents be cremated or buried? Ohio debate
Indigent Burial or Cremation – When Cost Meets Dignity When Public Duty Meets Hard Arithmetic The small city of Elyria, Ohio, close to the shores of Lake Erie, has been debating a question that quietly confronts many local authorities on both sides of the Atlantic: should indigent residents be buried or cremated at public expense? […]
Continue readingUnclaimed dead in Los Angeles – a service for the interment of ashes
How Los Angeles handles burial of unclaimed cremated remains Every year the city of Los Angeles buries it’s unclaimed dead. In December 2014 those who deceased in 2011 were laid to rest. Nothing unusual in that, all municipalities have such arrangements. What is interesting is the numbers involved. In 2011 the city cremated over 1,800 […]
Continue readingIs a columbarium a mausoleum? A hot debate in Wisconsin
Community debate over new structures to house cremated remains The attorney general of Cedarburg city, Michael Herbrand thinks so, but the reverend of the local Advent Lutheran Church disagrees. So why is this such a big deal? Well the Church had deigned a columbarium for their downtown (city centre) church which was to be the […]
Continue readingA send-off with a bang! Memorialised though a cannon blast
Firearms Enthusiast’s Ashes Fired from a Replica Civil War Cannon Now this is on the unusual side, a long time firearms enthusiast has had his ashes blasted out of a replica US civil war cannon. Now that is a proper send-off! Julian ‘Boyd’ Mercer lost his fight with cancer in September at a the age […]
Continue readingGrave robbing – don’t move ashes without permission!
Why Disturbing or Moving Cremated Remains Can Be a Crime Hardly the modern day Burke and Hare, however the crime of digging up and removing ashes under the law in is the same: abuse of a corpse Three men in he US have been in charged with ‘grave robbing’ after they dug up the […]
Continue readingRobin Williams’ Ashes Scattered Near His Mother’s in San Francisco Bay
Robin Williams’ Ashes Scattered Near His Mother’s in San Francisco Bay The world lost Robin Williams in the summer of 2014 — a moment that shocked and saddened millions. After his private service, his ashes were scattered near those of his beloved mother, along the coast of Marin County, California, just north of San Francisco […]
Continue readingFlorida court decides ashes are NOT property
Florida Court Rules Cremation Ashes Are Not Property The tragic case of a feuding parents fighting over their sons ashes has come a step further to concluding when the 4th District Court of Appeal decided that the ashes were not property. Scott Wilson a 23 year old was killed in a car accident 4 years ago. […]
Continue readingCross-dressing thief steals ashes
Cross-Dressing Thief Steals Ashes in Washington State I often wonder whether the world is becoming stranger or that weird things always happened but now communication is much better so we see more of them. In this case we have a fairly well reported occurrence: the theft of ashes. Readers unacquainted with the blog may not know […]
Continue readingNo ashes – No Date – A Catholic cemetery gets strict
Four daughters are in a dispute with a Catholic cemetery in Cudahy, Wisconsin in the US. The cemetery has refused to have their mother’s year of passing put on the family headstone. The mother, a Mrs Rita Sztukowski, died in April 2013 and her family opted to have her cremated, splitting the ashes between her […]
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