What Arundhati Roy’s Memoir says so brilliantly that allows the complex emotion of grief the space to breathe. I was walking our dog Mabel when Arundhati Roy stopped me in my tracks. I’d borrowed her memoir Mother Mary Comes to Me from my local library through BorrowBox — the kind of accidental discovery that reminds […]
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Keeping Ashes in a Columbarium: What are they, Why use them, and What do they Cost
Keeping Ashes in a Columbarium: What They Are, Why Use Them, and What They Cost A columbarium is a wall or structure designed to hold cremation urns — also known as cinerary urns. Think of a stone wall with small niches (cavities), each large enough to hold one or more urns (typically up to four). […]
Continue readingWhat to do with Ashes? 12 things to consider: VIDEO
What to Do with Ashes: 12 Things to Consider When you first receive the ashes of a loved one, it can feel overwhelming. Families often tell us they’re unsure what to do — and that’s completely normal. This short video highlights twelve important things to think about before deciding.The most important message? Don’t rush. You’ll […]
Continue readingWhat are the Costs in the UK for Burying Ashes in a Family Grave Plot? 2025
Updated Guide: Costs for Burying Ashes in a Family Grave Plot (UK, 2024–2025) Summary of Observed Ranges Lowest / rural / existing grave: ~ £100 (for the interment only) Reassured More common / mid-range: ~ £250–£500+ London Borough of Barking and Dagenham+3Westmorland and Furness Council+3Worcester Cemeteries+3 Higher / premium / urban cemeteries / full lease […]
Continue readingLegal Differences between Scattering and Interment of Cremated Remains in Law
Legal and Physical Differences between Scattering and Interment of Cremated Remains in English Law This is Scattering Ashes interpretation of the Law as it stands Scattering of Cremated Remains Definition: Scattering involves dispersing cremated remains (ashes) over a defined area, such as in a garden, at sea, or over land. Legal Considerations: Consent: Permission from […]
Continue readingLong Barrow – Ashes Interment – The Lost Village of Dode
Taking its inspiration from the prehistoric long barrows that once, long ago, perhaps were the most significant feature of our Kentish landscape and nestling comfortably within our ancient sacred site, Holly Barrow at Dode offers a beautiful and meaningful alternative approach to established crematoria, grave yards and natural burial grounds for your loved ones cremated ashes. It is a place […]
Continue readingFuneral Poverty, Ash Memorialisation and Memorial Trees
Supporting Families Facing Funeral Costs: The Plot Bank Initiative Funeral poverty is a serious and growing issue. It often arises from a combination of circumstances: people having no savings or spare money; funerals being inherently expensive due to the amount of professional work involved; a reluctance to discuss or plan ahead; and the simple fact […]
Continue readingThe rise of unclaimed ashes in Japan
The issue of unclaimed ashes in Japan is becoming a problem for the local authorities. A trend mirroring the UK. Whilst there are cultural differences, many of the issues are similar to those in the UK: firstly the weakening of bonds within extended families and thus the willingness of extended family willing to pay; secondly […]
Continue readingCommunal ashes area and insensitive councils?
When shared burial of cremated remains leads to disagreement Everyone gets annoyed with the Council from time to time: over zealous traffic wardens, coming across the odd ‘computer says no’ clerk, or the librarian who doesn’t want their books disturbed. Those images seem to stick in the mind as opposed to the good ‘stuff’ that […]
Continue readingIs it grave robbing or grounds maintenance?
Grave Robbing or Grounds Maintenance? When Councils Remove Items from Graves Darren Bibb is angry with Solihull Council: accusing them of grave robbing! Mr Bibb’s disabled son passed away just after his 18th birthday in 2011, and the family decided to place a stone memorial over where his ashes are buried on the grass and adjacent […]
Continue readingJapanese Buddhist Temples criticised for Interring Ashes sent through the post
Japan is a predominantly secular country although nominally a third (about 90 million people) follow the Buddhist tradition. Now a small number of temples are offering a postal service accepting cremation ashes through the post, which the priests then inter at the charnel house. This has come under some criticism. The reason given is not […]
Continue readingInterring cremation ashes in the Holy Land
Interring Ashes in the Holy Land – Jerusalem and the Sea of Galilee For some people, a final connection to the Holy Land carries profound spiritual, historical and personal meaning. If it is your last wish — or that of a loved one — to have ashes interred in Israel, this can be done, and […]
Continue readingCremation Ashes: Chemical Composition
What Are Human Ashes Made Of? The Chemical Composition of Cremation Ashes If you’ve ever wondered what human ashes are made of after cremation, you’re not alone. Many families are curious about what actually remains once the cremation process is complete. The answer lies in the chemical composition of cremation ashes — sometimes called cremated […]
Continue readingDoritos Creator to Be Memorialised With His Famous Snack
Arch West’s Family Plans to Bury Him with Doritos Chips Arch West, creator of the Dorito corn chip, died on September 20, aged 97 and his family intend to inter dozens of crisps with his urn. Why they are doing it is unclear but they are and why not. I suppose it is fitting that […]
Continue readingFrustration Over Burying Cremation Ashes at a Family Grave
Regulation and Red Tape Make Burial of Ashes Difficult A lady from North Yorkshire has discovered the large amount of red tape and hurdles needed have her casket (cremation urn) buried at a family grave, and she has said that if it can’t be done legally then she would do it illegally. Mrs Rea wants […]
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