Exhumation of Ashes: A Rare but Necessary Decision
Now here is a recent case further expanding our understand of exhumation on Church or England / consecrated ground. The recent case involved St. Peter’s churchyard in Aubourn, near Lincoln, and highlights the rare and complex circumstances under which ashes can be moved from their resting place. This particular case revolved around the ashes of Mostyn Purnell Cooper, which were buried in a plot that became waterlogged, making it difficult (and unpleasant) for his widow and children to visit.
The Church’s View on Exhumation
In the eyes of the Church of England, the burial of human remains in consecrated ground is intended to be permanent. Exhumation is only considered in exceptional circumstances, such as a mistake at the time of burial or significant unforeseen issues like those faced by the Cooper family.
The Cooper family sought permission from the Church of England’s Consistory Court to move the ashes to a drier part of the churchyard, citing the hazardous and inaccessible conditions of the waterlogged plot. While such requests are typically denied to uphold the sanctity of a “final resting place,” the Rev. Mark Bishop, Chancellor of the Diocese of Lincoln, ruled in favour of the exhumation. He acknowledged that the conditions made it unreasonable for the family to visit and pay their respects, constituting a compelling exception.
Similar Cases and the Importance of Planning
This case is not an isolated incident. At Scattering Ashes, we’ve seen similar situations where unforeseen circumstances have necessitated moving ashes. On our website, we explore topics related to exhumation, including the legal and spiritual considerations that families face when such decisions arise.
One important takeaway is the need to carefully consider the location of an interment or scattering. Factors like environmental conditions, accessibility, and even future land use can significantly impact the long-term suitability of a resting place. While families often make these decisions with the best intentions, unforeseen challenges—like waterlogging—can complicate their ability to visit and honour their loved ones. What the Church normally says is: could this have been reasonably foreseen? Ummm interesting well I suppose it could it has probably happened for quite sometime ….. however, it shouldn’t be for the family to predict this.
Legal and Emotional Challenges of Exhumation
The legal process of exhumation is often lengthy and requires approval from the relevant church authority or local government. Families must provide compelling evidence of exceptional circumstances, as demonstrated in the Cooper case.
Emotionally, the process can be just as challenging. Exhumation may feel like a disruption of the peace and dignity of the deceased, even when undertaken with the utmost respect. For most families, it’s a balance between preserving that peace and ensuring they can maintain their connection to their loved one. It is a heck of a challenge so please think carefully if this applies to you.
More examples and information?
The case of Mostyn Purnell Cooper demonstrates the rare but necessary circumstances under which exhumation is permitted. For more information on exhumation and scattering ashes, visit Scattering Ashes to explore articles, resources, and guidance tailored to help families make informed and meaningful decisions.